1988 vs 1978

万万没想到公司那只将要退休的老鸟转载这样 “女人抬头挺胸” 的励志文章给我看。Uncle Soon 就是投诉我这个秘书的工作态度有问题，而我也拒绝拍马屁………… 这样的紧张关系一直维持到我告诉他未来老公是海南万宁人，他对我的态度马上 180° 转变，本小姐当然识趣地见好就收，做个敬老的好员工。

得空没事做在茶水间哈啦的时候，我总是叫他教我说几句海南话，而粗话总是学得特别快。

大多数的华人除了有很强的民族情意结之外，也有扎根的籍贯偏好。说到底，我们还是比较重视人情味的喔！

以上的八卦都不是今天要八卦的重点，哈哈哈！

重点是，我发现收件人名单里全都是美眉除了我！因为，我是年纪最大的那一个！！！ 什么意思？太瞧不起人了，哼！

然后，不服气准备纸和笔，老老实实写下 girl 或 woman 再数一数………… 结果？我无话可说。

♥ Difference between Girls and Matured Women ♥

♥ Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.
Matured women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits.

♥ Girls want to control the man in their life.
Matured women know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling.

♥ Girls check you for not calling them.
Matured women are too busy to realize you hadn't.

 
♥ Girls are afraid to be alone.
Matured women revel in it-using it as a time for personal growth.

♥ Girls ignore the good guys.
Matured women ignore the bad guys.
 

♥ Girls make you come home.
Matured women make you want to come home.

♥ Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.
Matured women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.

♥ Girls try to monopolize all their man's time (i.e., don't want him hanging with his friends).
Matured women realize that a little bit of space makes the 'together time' even more special-and goes to kick it with her own friends!

♥ Girls think a guy crying is weak.
Matured women offer their shoulder and a tissue.

♥ Girls want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so.
Matured women 'show' him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate without fear of losing his 'manhood'.

♥ Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
Matured women know that, that was just one man.

♥ Girls fall in love and chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all 'signs'.
Matured women know that sometimes the one you love, don't always love you back and move on, without bitterness.

♥ Girls will read this and get an attitude.
Matured women will read this and pass it on to other Matured women and their male friends.

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