<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8575088627570847843.post833071015614544843..comments</id><updated>2009-07-08T13:55:54.791+08:00</updated><title type='text'>Comments on ET Philosophy™: Being married is about being yourself only with so...</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://shubenshuben.blogspot.com/feeds/833071015614544843/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8575088627570847843/833071015614544843/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://shubenshuben.blogspot.com/2009/07/being-married-is-about-being-yourself.html'/><author><name>et™</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03369475038762018298</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>12</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8575088627570847843.post-3480541500573269742</id><published>2009-07-08T13:55:36.633+08:00</published><updated>2009-07-08T13:55:36.633+08:00</updated><title type='text'>Shoo Ling 
哇唠，典型狮子座，你最厉害。

外星人不是最新潮啦，只是希望你以后在部落格的世...</title><content type='html'>Shoo Ling &lt;br /&gt;哇唠，典型狮子座，你最厉害。&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;外星人不是最新潮啦，只是希望你以后在部落格的世界里能够以博客或网民身份留言咯。&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;你的认真，呃………… 有点恐怖啦。</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8575088627570847843/833071015614544843/comments/default/3480541500573269742'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8575088627570847843/833071015614544843/comments/default/3480541500573269742'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://shubenshuben.blogspot.com/2009/07/being-married-is-about-being-yourself.html?showComment=1247032536633#c3480541500573269742' title=''/><author><name>et™</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03369475038762018298</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='10640421362818775596'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://shubenshuben.blogspot.com/2009/07/being-married-is-about-being-yourself.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8575088627570847843.post-833071015614544843' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8575088627570847843/posts/default/833071015614544843' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8575088627570847843.post-5193056751538136216</id><published>2009-07-08T13:03:17.722+08:00</published><updated>2009-07-08T13:03:17.722+08:00</updated><title type='text'>哈哈，這才是你老姐。
全家只有你最新潮囉。</title><content type='html'>哈哈，這才是你老姐。&lt;br /&gt;全家只有你最新潮囉。</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8575088627570847843/833071015614544843/comments/default/5193056751538136216'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8575088627570847843/833071015614544843/comments/default/5193056751538136216'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://shubenshuben.blogspot.com/2009/07/being-married-is-about-being-yourself.html?showComment=1247029397722#c5193056751538136216' title=''/><author><name>shooling</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14361657808980416957</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://shubenshuben.blogspot.com/2009/07/being-married-is-about-being-yourself.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8575088627570847843.post-833071015614544843' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8575088627570847843/posts/default/833071015614544843' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8575088627570847843.post-6551761718015950420</id><published>2009-07-08T12:25:24.230+08:00</published><updated>2009-07-08T12:25:24.230+08:00</updated><title type='text'>阿璁
不好意思，提起你的伤心往事。

过去了让它过去，旧的不去新的不来。加油！


HuiLinG
...</title><content type='html'>阿璁&lt;br /&gt;不好意思，提起你的伤心往事。&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;过去了让它过去，旧的不去新的不来。加油！&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;HuiLinG&lt;br /&gt;也许是不婚主义者还没有遇到对的人咧？&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;外星人非常渴望拥有属于自己的家，婚姻是我人生必修课。它对我来说是一种情感的升华和心灵的归属。&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;我正在寻找这样的一个人，能够和他一起走过即使没有激情和浪漫的岁月也敢面对平淡中所带来的问题和矛盾。&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;因为，我害怕一成不变的生活方式。&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;愿天下有情人终成眷属，所有家庭幸福美满哦。&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;阿葆&lt;br /&gt;哈哈哈！&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;很多认识我的人都在即时通里酸我是不是得了婚前恐惧症？喂！真的会感到焦虑，不是开玩笑的。&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;利端 &lt;br /&gt;慢慢来吧！&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;我相信有一天你也能够冲破心里障碍，找到属于自己的性福。&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;哇哈哈哈 ………………&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;家勤&lt;br /&gt;外星人 100% 赞同你的说法哦。&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;问题是，当别人享受了我的教养后，请问我是否也应该得到同样礼貌的回报呢？&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;算了啦，我决定来个做好本分玩冇屌。&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;你最好别让夫家知道老公帮你洗衣抹地洗厕所，要不然的话……………… 嘻嘻！</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8575088627570847843/833071015614544843/comments/default/6551761718015950420'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8575088627570847843/833071015614544843/comments/default/6551761718015950420'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://shubenshuben.blogspot.com/2009/07/being-married-is-about-being-yourself.html?showComment=1247027124230#c6551761718015950420' title=''/><author><name>et™</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03369475038762018298</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='10640421362818775596'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://shubenshuben.blogspot.com/2009/07/being-married-is-about-being-yourself.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8575088627570847843.post-833071015614544843' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8575088627570847843/posts/default/833071015614544843' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8575088627570847843.post-2771603420760893611</id><published>2009-07-08T10:03:12.471+08:00</published><updated>2009-07-08T10:03:12.471+08:00</updated><title type='text'>要结婚的时候才发现越来婚事不由得我做主，哈哈！
幸好的是婚后我和老公是自己组织小家庭的，可是偶尔回去...</title><content type='html'>要结婚的时候才发现越来婚事不由得我做主，哈哈！&lt;br /&gt;幸好的是婚后我和老公是自己组织小家庭的，可是偶尔回去还是要扮演一个乖媳妇，我想这也是一种礼貌和教养吧！&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;想象人家的儿子也不是一样帮我洗衣抹地洗厕所，嘻嘻！</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8575088627570847843/833071015614544843/comments/default/2771603420760893611'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8575088627570847843/833071015614544843/comments/default/2771603420760893611'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://shubenshuben.blogspot.com/2009/07/being-married-is-about-being-yourself.html?showComment=1247018592471#c2771603420760893611' title=''/><author><name>家勤</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00763016925220384757</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://shubenshuben.blogspot.com/2009/07/being-married-is-about-being-yourself.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8575088627570847843.post-833071015614544843' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8575088627570847843/posts/default/833071015614544843' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8575088627570847843.post-5949538998817809768</id><published>2009-07-07T23:34:26.481+08:00</published><updated>2009-07-07T23:34:26.481+08:00</updated><title type='text'>我我我。。。。不敢结婚。。。</title><content type='html'>我我我。。。。不敢结婚。。。</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8575088627570847843/833071015614544843/comments/default/5949538998817809768'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8575088627570847843/833071015614544843/comments/default/5949538998817809768'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://shubenshuben.blogspot.com/2009/07/being-married-is-about-being-yourself.html?showComment=1246980866481#c5949538998817809768' title=''/><author><name>利端</name><uri>http://www.ifublog.com/liduan</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://shubenshuben.blogspot.com/2009/07/being-married-is-about-being-yourself.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8575088627570847843.post-833071015614544843' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8575088627570847843/posts/default/833071015614544843' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8575088627570847843.post-4339014973107787733</id><published>2009-07-07T21:08:49.529+08:00</published><updated>2009-07-07T21:08:49.529+08:00</updated><title type='text'>你不是那么快就婚前焦虑症吧。。哈哈</title><content type='html'>你不是那么快就婚前焦虑症吧。。哈哈</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8575088627570847843/833071015614544843/comments/default/4339014973107787733'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8575088627570847843/833071015614544843/comments/default/4339014973107787733'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://shubenshuben.blogspot.com/2009/07/being-married-is-about-being-yourself.html?showComment=1246972129529#c4339014973107787733' title=''/><author><name>paul lee</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12598967799154502965</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://shubenshuben.blogspot.com/2009/07/being-married-is-about-being-yourself.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8575088627570847843.post-833071015614544843' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8575088627570847843/posts/default/833071015614544843' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8575088627570847843.post-5431807407200950898</id><published>2009-07-07T17:27:49.779+08:00</published><updated>2009-07-07T17:27:49.779+08:00</updated><title type='text'>也许因为那些烦死人的原因，所以越来越多不婚主义者。

结婚，很烦的。
还没结，就先吵（大）架的~</title><content type='html'>也许因为那些烦死人的原因，所以越来越多不婚主义者。&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;结婚，很烦的。&lt;br /&gt;还没结，就先吵（大）架的~</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8575088627570847843/833071015614544843/comments/default/5431807407200950898'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8575088627570847843/833071015614544843/comments/default/5431807407200950898'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://shubenshuben.blogspot.com/2009/07/being-married-is-about-being-yourself.html?showComment=1246958869779#c5431807407200950898' title=''/><author><name>HuiLinG</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02541606316358880519</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='15935662545387722813'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://shubenshuben.blogspot.com/2009/07/being-married-is-about-being-yourself.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8575088627570847843.post-833071015614544843' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8575088627570847843/posts/default/833071015614544843' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8575088627570847843.post-6755538486473510738</id><published>2009-07-07T15:51:07.691+08:00</published><updated>2009-07-07T15:51:07.691+08:00</updated><title type='text'>我...當然是沒有結過婚啊

就差那麼一點點....

不過還是錯過了</title><content type='html'>我...當然是沒有結過婚啊&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;就差那麼一點點....&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;不過還是錯過了</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8575088627570847843/833071015614544843/comments/default/6755538486473510738'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8575088627570847843/833071015614544843/comments/default/6755538486473510738'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://shubenshuben.blogspot.com/2009/07/being-married-is-about-being-yourself.html?showComment=1246953067691#c6755538486473510738' title=''/><author><name>惡狼傳說</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10369085052917164506</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://shubenshuben.blogspot.com/2009/07/being-married-is-about-being-yourself.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8575088627570847843.post-833071015614544843' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8575088627570847843/posts/default/833071015614544843' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8575088627570847843.post-596570180953827372</id><published>2009-07-07T15:28:44.004+08:00</published><updated>2009-07-07T15:28:44.004+08:00</updated><title type='text'>Invisible
男女平等是 boh 可能的歹志啦！
（但愿）也许还可以争取到一点点的互相尊重咯。...</title><content type='html'>Invisible&lt;br /&gt;男女平等是 boh 可能的歹志啦！&lt;br /&gt;（但愿）也许还可以争取到一点点的互相尊重咯。&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Shoo Ling&lt;br /&gt;呃………… 你的老土还真的不是普通那种哦。&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;阿璁&lt;br /&gt;说得好像你结过婚酱咯！&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;可是，说得好。&lt;br /&gt;安啦，外星人从来就不是胆小怕事之辈。</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8575088627570847843/833071015614544843/comments/default/596570180953827372'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8575088627570847843/833071015614544843/comments/default/596570180953827372'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://shubenshuben.blogspot.com/2009/07/being-married-is-about-being-yourself.html?showComment=1246951724004#c596570180953827372' title=''/><author><name>et™</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03369475038762018298</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='10640421362818775596'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://shubenshuben.blogspot.com/2009/07/being-married-is-about-being-yourself.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8575088627570847843.post-833071015614544843' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8575088627570847843/posts/default/833071015614544843' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8575088627570847843.post-1411082216143367731</id><published>2009-07-07T15:22:48.813+08:00</published><updated>2009-07-07T15:22:48.813+08:00</updated><title type='text'>如果一個人能先預見二十年後的情景，還決定結婚---他們的婚姻一般來說是可以維持幸福。婚姻是不可捉摸在...</title><content type='html'>如果一個人能先預見二十年後的情景，還決定結婚---他們的婚姻一般來說是可以維持幸福。婚姻是不可捉摸在於：一個樂觀的男人加上一個樂觀的女人，有時等於兩個悲觀主義者。女人能夠忍受不幸的婚姻，不能忍受不幸的愛情；男人能夠忍受不幸的愛情，不能忍受不幸的婚姻，一個錢幣最美麗的狀態，不是靜止，而是當它像陀螺一樣轉動的時候，沒人知道，即將轉出來的那一面，是快樂或痛苦，是愛還是恨。所以，既來之，則安之，很多人連墳墓都近不去呢....&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;有空也來我部落格留下你外星的足跡...</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8575088627570847843/833071015614544843/comments/default/1411082216143367731'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8575088627570847843/833071015614544843/comments/default/1411082216143367731'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://shubenshuben.blogspot.com/2009/07/being-married-is-about-being-yourself.html?showComment=1246951368813#c1411082216143367731' title=''/><author><name>惡狼傳說</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10369085052917164506</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://shubenshuben.blogspot.com/2009/07/being-married-is-about-being-yourself.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8575088627570847843.post-833071015614544843' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8575088627570847843/posts/default/833071015614544843' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8575088627570847843.post-430716604579150565</id><published>2009-07-07T14:32:35.767+08:00</published><updated>2009-07-07T14:32:35.767+08:00</updated><title type='text'>如果你準備抱著這篇文章，抱著這種想法去結婚，我可以勸你還是不要走進那個「墳墓」害人害己嗎？

很多東...</title><content type='html'>如果你準備抱著這篇文章，抱著這種想法去結婚，我可以勸你還是不要走進那個「墳墓」害人害己嗎？&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;很多東西很多事情很多時候，可以從很多角度去看去想以致可以大圓滿。&lt;br /&gt;站在自己是人家的女兒去想當兒，也請站在人家兒子、人家父母的角度去想。&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;你一定會頂我說你沒有做過人家父母你不懂；但人家也可以說他不是人家女兒他也不懂你的感受和想法啊。&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;不要把自己框在三角形內想東西看東西，選個圓形跳進去吧，就不會把自己逼入死角。&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;認同你的說法和想法，心疼你受的委屈，了解你的心情之余，不表示可以忽略另一人的感受。</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8575088627570847843/833071015614544843/comments/default/430716604579150565'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8575088627570847843/833071015614544843/comments/default/430716604579150565'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://shubenshuben.blogspot.com/2009/07/being-married-is-about-being-yourself.html?showComment=1246948355767#c430716604579150565' title=''/><author><name>shooling</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14361657808980416957</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://shubenshuben.blogspot.com/2009/07/being-married-is-about-being-yourself.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8575088627570847843.post-833071015614544843' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8575088627570847843/posts/default/833071015614544843' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8575088627570847843.post-216748498200904582</id><published>2009-07-07T14:12:53.176+08:00</published><updated>2009-07-07T14:12:53.176+08:00</updated><title type='text'>这篇写的好，说什么男女平等都是骗人的东西！</title><content type='html'>这篇写的好，说什么男女平等都是骗人的东西！</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8575088627570847843/833071015614544843/comments/default/216748498200904582'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8575088627570847843/833071015614544843/comments/default/216748498200904582'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://shubenshuben.blogspot.com/2009/07/being-married-is-about-being-yourself.html?showComment=1246947173176#c216748498200904582' title=''/><author><name>Invisible</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13082375478029818169</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://shubenshuben.blogspot.com/2009/07/being-married-is-about-being-yourself.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8575088627570847843.post-833071015614544843' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8575088627570847843/posts/default/833071015614544843' type='text/html'/></entry></feed>